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Getting to know Rebecca

Rebecca Osterlee, Registered Psychotherapist
ABOUT ME

Hi! I'm Rebecca (she/her).

As a therapist, I believe the heart of my work is the therapeutic relationship. I don't view therapy as a place where people are "fixed", because you are not broken. Instead, I see it as a space where we can walk together through the beautiful, painful, and often messy reality of being human. Over the years, I've had the privilege of sitting alongside people from all walks of life as they navigate their own stories. In this work, I bring not only extensive clinical training, but also my whole self — my compassion, presence, and respect for the courage it takes to seek support.

At Solara Psychotherapy, I aim to offer a calm, welcoming, and human space, a place where you can take a breath and just be. You don't have to hold it all together here. You don't need to impress or prove anything. This is a space where your story can unfold slowly and gently, free from judgment or pressure. You are welcome exactly as you are.

There's no rush here, only room to show up exactly as you are and be met with warmth, curiosity, and care as your story unfolds in its own time. Whether you arrive fidgety, distracted, excited, sluggish, or somewhere in between, all parts of you are welcome here. Solara is a neurodivergent-friendly space, where you're free to bring your fidgets, stim as you need, and let go of masking. However you come, this space is made to meet you. This is what Solara offers — a warm and steady light as you come home to yourself, and a place where healing unfolds without hurry or expectation.

Welcome to Solara Psychotherapy

Where healing is a journey back to your light.

At Solara Psychotherapy, we believe that every person holds within them a quiet, enduring light, even if life's hardships, losses, or patterns have dimmed it along the way. Inspired by the word Sol, meaning sun, our name reflects the core of what therapy can offer: warmth, clarity, and renewal. The sun rises every day, and so too do we have the capacity to begin again, even after seasons of darkness.

Therapy at Solara is not about quick fixes or forced positivity. Just as sunlight gently coaxes new life to grow, our work together is rooted in compassion, patience, and respect for your unique process. We honour the cycles of healing — times of illumination, times of shadow, and all the in-between places. Through meaningful connection and curiosity, we help you reclaim parts of yourself that have felt out of reach, soften self-judgment, and move towards a more grounded, vital way of being.

Our approach integrates evidence-based practices with deep respect for your lived experience. Whether you are navigating ADHD, anxiety, grief, trauma, burnout, relationship challenges, or life transitions, Solara offers a space where your truth is met with empathy and attuned support.

Your path to healing does not need to be walked alone. Together, we will invite back your inner light — not by changing who you are, but by helping you reconnect to the parts of yourself that have always been there, quietly waiting to shine.

MY APPROACH

How I work

Person-Centered

So often, life tells us who we should be, how we should feel, or what we should want. Therapy, with me, is an invitation to pause all of that. I offer a person-centered approach that keeps the focus on you — your truth, your experiences, and your pace. This is not a space for labels or correction. I strive to meet you with curiosity and care, reflecting what I hear and creating room for your authentic self to emerge. You set the tone here, and I walk beside you as we explore what matters most to you.

Trauma-Informed

Carrying past experiences with you is part of being human, and while not everything we experience in life is "trauma," our lived experiences shape the way we move through and feel safe in the world. Working through a trauma-informed lens means I remain attuned to your sense of safety, agency, and readiness as we engage together. This means: prioritizing emotional safety above all else; avoiding intrusive or rapid questioning; understanding your patterns and responses as adaptations rather than problems; honouring your need for pacing and respecting your autonomy; moving gently with sensitive material to avoid re-traumatization; supporting deeper awareness of and connection with your body, so that healing can happen holistically. At its core, trauma-informed work is about meeting you with deep respect, attuning to what feels right and possible, and never rushing your process.

Eclectic and Flexible

Healing is not linear, and therapy is not "one-size-fits-all." Each person, and each moment, calls for something different. I draw from a wide range of therapeutic modalities to meet you where you are. At times, this might mean helping you work through overwhelming thoughts or untangling longstanding patterns that keep you feeling stuck. Other moments may call for exploring your values, connecting with strengths, or making sense of difficult emotions that are hard to put into words. My practice is heavily influenced by polyvagal theory, and a large part of my philosophy as a clinician focuses on cultivating somatic awareness. I help you develop somatic awareness by inviting you to notice what your body holds, what sensations you are aware of, and attuned use of creative tools like reflective prompts, metaphors, or visualization when helpful to deepen your connection to your body and what it needs to feel safe. At times, our work may include exploring how your nervous system responds to stress and safety. This could involve learning about different nervous system states, understanding the concept of the window of tolerance, and developing tools to help you return to that window when you begin to feel overwhelmed or disconnected. Whether we are focusing on small, actionable steps or sitting tenderly with big emotions, my commitment is always to flexibility and responsiveness. Together, we move at a pace that feels manageable and meaningful to you — no rigid agendas, just space to honour what's present.

WHAT I VALUE IN OUR WORK TOGETHER

Solara Psychotherapy is rooted in kindness, presence, and deep reverence for your unique journey. Here, you don't need to perform or push through. You are invited to simply arrive, and we'll take it from there, together.

Confidentiality

Your story is yours, and it is always treated with the utmost care and privacy. Outside of rare situations involving safety (which we will cover in our first session), everything you share stays protected.

Non-Judgment

All parts of you are welcome here. Whether you arrive carrying anger, shame, grief, numbness, or joy, each part of your experience matters and has a place.

Self-Paced Healing

I will never rush you. Therapy may involve sitting with silence, revisiting familiar patterns, or going slowly, and that's okay. Healing unfolds on its own timeline.

Authenticity

I don't believe in distant or detached therapy. I show up as a real person… Warm, honest, and human, and I meet you in your humanness too. This includes drawing from my own lived experience as an ADHDer and navigating life in a world largely designed for neurotypical minds. My neurodivergence shapes not only how I move through the world, but also how I hold space with understanding and care.

Collaboration

You won't be told what to do in therapy with me. Instead, we'll work together to make sense of your experiences and to find pathways that feel aligned with you.

Safety

Above all, I want this space to be a soft landing spot in your week. A place where you can take off the mask, rest, release the tension from your shoulders, and know you will be received just as you are.

EDUCATION
Doctor of Education, Counselling Psychology University of Toronto · in progress, est. 2028
Master of Education, Counselling Psychology University of Toronto
Honours Bachelor of Arts, Psychology University of Guelph

You are welcome exactly as you are.

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